My first choice is the Climax Silicone Ribbed G Shaft dildo for its unique tie-dye design. What I like best about it is the hole in the base, which allows tight finger gripping, and the curved shape for hitting the G-Spot. Caution girls! This dildo will make you wet. If you’re a squirter, keep in mind that you will need to do laundry after fun time is over. While on a business trip, my girlfriend surprised me with the Climax. Sliding it back and forth, the nub bumped my perineum and worked my G-Spot causing my first ejaculation ever. Luckily, we could call maid service for clean sheets. It has a single speed vibration level. I love the soft texture as it becomes slick when lubricated. Silicone is durable, nonporous, hygienic and can last a lifetime. It’s 100% platinum cured medical grade silicone. It can be boiled, frozen, micro-waved or placed on the top rack of the dishwasher. It is waterproof and phthalate free. How’s that for durable! It comes with a free satin storage bag and three AG13 Batteries. It measures 6.25 x 1 x 2.75 inches. Normal list price is $36.79 but AllXClub members price is $29.43.

Another favorite is the Climax Silicone Wavy Shaft dildo. It’s pink and curved for rocking action. The silky smooth one-touch bullet is useful for external vibration. The hole is necessary for a finger grip just so you keep control of your joy stick. When I want a thick and curved shaft, I know my G-Spot needs play time. It’s a single speed so don’t worry about buzzing your clit. It’s easy on the girl parts. For men and women who love anus action, surprise your partner at high noon from the rear. He’ll thank you for the shoot out at O-K Corral. It feels tickly good. It’s 100% platinum cured medical grade silicone. Silicone can be boiled, frozen, micro-waved or placed on the top rack of the dishwasher. Silicones soft texture becomes slick when lubricated. Silicone is durable, nonporous, hygienic, and can last a lifetime even if you use it in the butt. Naturally, it is waterproof and phthalate free. It comes with a free satin storage bag and three AG13 Batteries. It measures 6.25 x 1 x 2.75 inches. Normal list price is $36.79 but AllXClub members price is $29.43.

The Glass Dreams Topsy Turvy is designed by Doc Johnson. When I bought my first Glass Dreams, I added it to my art collection because it was so beautiful. That all changed one hot night when my battery supply was empty and my honey pot needed attention. I grabbed that Topsy Turvy like it was the meant to be in my vag from the beginning of time. Its nubs and swirls handled my g-spot angles like a pro and had me screaming for more. Normal list price is $53.79 but AllXClub members price is $43.03.

Another favorite Doc Johnson Glass Dreams design is the Magic Stick. Its obelisk design with mutliple nubs tempts me as I write this very article. It leaves such an impression that you literally feel it rubbing inside long after you have cum. The cock ring end serves as both a holding device and glory hole to satisfy the male in a whole new way. And if you just can’t break down and use it because it is just too beautiful, then hang it outside with your wind chimes. No one will be the wiser! Normal list price is $57.49 but AllXClub members price is $45.99.

The General is a meaty sized dildo to use when you’re longing for girth. It has a diameter of 2 inches and a staggering length of 7 inches. Boys and girls, don’t ride this stallion until you have properly broken it. It doesn’t have to be a scary ordeal for you. Just grab a hold and slide it in for hours of fun. My girlfriend likes to use this one me when I’m feeling a little wild and wide eyed. I can’t seem to buck my girlfriend off when she has the General in hand as this dildo is one deep penetrator. I keep screaming for more and she keeps giving me what I want. I think I’ve been properly trained. It comes both in red and black colors. Normal list price is $122.29 but AllXClub members price is $97.83.

For those who want both vaginal and anal play, then the Ripple is for you. The Ripple is designed to function as anal beads but without the mess or concern of strings breaking inside your anus. It’s available both in small and large sizes. The small size is perfect for the female anus while men will probably prefer the large size. Its designed to fit a harness perfectly for a slow sensual seduction. All women should experience the joy of penetrating a man and seeing him squeal when you massage his prostate. And if you’re into guy on guy action, then men can safely use this toy while giving their penis a rest. My best guy friend never knew how powerfully he could come, so I offered to show him. He bent over and with a little lube for kindness, I inserted the Ripple into his anus. I went slowly because his anus was not used to seeing action. He could barely breath when he came and even begged for a second round! I must admit, I enjoyed watching him beg, plead, and cum for the Ripple. The beads start at 7/8″ diameter and build gradually to 1-1/2″ as you penetrate, which makes for a tantalizing ride. It’s diameter is 1.45 x 6.85 inches. Normal list price is $38.79 but AllXClub members price is $31.03.

The Elements Theta Pink Pearl is best for playing on the vaginal nerve pack as it slides in an out. The curve of the shaft mimics the curves of your body for an easy sensual motion. All the elements feature a new ergonomic base with a grooved base that holds the thumb and is angled for a uniquely comfortable experience. The Theta is a perfect toy for solo or couples play. It’s great for travel because its light but be careful as airport security will confiscate this orgasm tool. One time I took it on my carry on luggage and the airport security woman confiscated it claiming it was a dangerous. I told her it was dangerous to remove my sexual health if I didn’t get my Pink Pearl back, but she selfishly kept it. I’ve lost a few lovely Pink Pearls flying to Europe. It also features a removable vibrator that can be easily replaced or upgraded to a multi-speed unit. The diameter is 1 x 5.75 inches. Normal list price is $53.99 but AllXClub members price is $43.19.

If you’re looking for cheap action, then the Passion Probe in Ripple shape is the oscillator for you. Its the simple dildo I keep in the kitchen drawer, glove compartment of my car, and my purse because I cannot afford to go without an orgasm. I had an orgasm emergency one particular day while waiting at the DMV. I had at least another 45 minutes before my name would be called so I disappeared into the bathroom with my girlfriend. While my girlfriend and I kissed each other in the stall, she slipped that silky Probe inside me while I played with her breasts. We each shared the big O in time before my name was called. The DMV clerk wondered why I had such a big smile on my face! It’s dimensions are 6.5″ x 1.5 x 4 cm. It has multi-speeds and uses 2C batteries, which are not included. Normal list price is $24.49 but AllXClub members price is $19.59.

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1. Lubrication

Unlike a penis a dildo doesn’t produce it’s on lubricant so girls it very important to lubricate up. It is a common fallacy that a woman own natural lubricant will suffice. In fact quite often many materials of penetrative toys actually can absorb the women lubricant. Whenever a woman is using a penetrative toy it is vital that she uses a lot of lubricant. Remember most materials don’t slide easily and if not properly lubricated can lead to unpleasant friction that may need to nasty soreness that can last for several days.

2. In the Mood For Love

You will feel discomfort if you try to use a sex toy before being suitably aroused. Take your time with the toy and work your way to arousal through stimulation of other erogenous zones. If you have a vibrating dildo for example; gently caress you clitoris using a gentle buzz setting to get yourself excited if not use your hands. You would’t want a lover to jump right in and the same approach has to be applied to dildo use.

3. Take it easy

The first penetration should be taken very slowly and with deep breaths. Taking these long breaths allows blood to rush to the genitals that help them to engorge and relax. If you take short breaths or hold your breath it stops all of this taking place resulting tightness and tenderness. Once the dildo is inserted I would suggest leaving it in there for a moment to allow the body to get used to the feel of it and give the time for the body to relax properly. Remember you don’t have to insert the entire dildo in (do what feels nice and comfortable). Some women like deep penetration and others more shallow insertion. Remember that it is your toy girls you are in control and play around with your dildo. Work out what feels nice. Lube yourself up around the genitals and your dildo then rub it against your lips and clitoris teasing yourself and then penetrate it really is a lot of fun.

4. Are We Having Fun Yet?

Do anything you want ladies. Insert the entire dildo or only half of it, put it deeper or shallower, enjoy fast or slow motions (tease yourself when you feel that you are close to climax, stop then count to thirty and begin pleasuring yourself again, let the anticipation build again, stop and repeat this a few times the resulting orgasm will be electric). Enjoy every moment of your play with your sex toy. I like to go deep and hard when I am hot and aroused.

In Conclusion

There is no hard and fast rule about dildo use and the key is to take you time and relax, have fun and listen to what your body is telling you. Remember girls practice makes perfect and the more you use your dildo the more you will understand your body and the greater the delights that will unfold.

Well ladies, enjoy the ride but please note after that great orgasm you aren’t finished. Always make sure that you clean you dildo with anti-bacterial soap and water, commercial sex toy cleaner or sterilize it (many dildo are now even dishwasher safe!). Then rinse you dildo and make sure it is properly dried. Then when your dildo is squeaky clean and dry, store in a dry and at room temperature. Then storing in a soft material in a drawer will be fine. Never use a faulty or damaged dildo because the genital tissue is very fragile and can be easily damaged by faulty dildo. Please girls enjoy your dildo they really are fun.

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A special thanks to guest author Holly Franklin.